This post is not the norm of my writings but there is something heavy on my heart that I feel like I need to share with you, my friends. After all, I am here to build lasting relationships and how is that possible if we never get to truly know the personal side of one another?
One and a half years ago, our daughter was pregnant with their second child. Twenty-two weeks into the pregnancy she developed severe abdominal pains, which resulted in their son being born early. After giving birth, our grandson lived approximately eight hours. (Please excuse my flowing of tears right now) This was one the toughest ordeals I have ever been through in my life, not to mention having to perform the home going ceremony. I barely made it through that short time span.
I am telling you this because I am sure that most of you have lost a loved one and know what I am feeling at this very moment. I will never get over the heartache that is felt when I think of Colin. We are blessed to have another grandson that is almost 4 years old and he brings peace , joy and comfort to my heart each and every day.
I went to the cemetery last week and the thought crossed my mind as to why more of us do not visit our deceased loved ones on a regular basis. I know we have good intentions and I know there is nothing we can do for them, but if I were lying there it would be nice to know that someone stopped by to visit every now and then. Sure I know that the individual we loved and communicated with is not really in the grave, but what remains of their physical bodies are still there. I don't want to get morbid, but I just think we need to show more concern and respect by making more frequent visit to their grave sites.
Am I the only one that feels this way? It could be that I am just having a very sad moment and it will pass, but I don't think so! I would love to hear about your experiences and how you feel about this topic. I have even thought about having a "Visit the Cemetery" day. We have boss's day and secretary's day don't we? Why not a day set aside to visit our loved ones that are no longer with us? This would at least give us the opportunity to visit once a year.
One and a half years ago, our daughter was pregnant with their second child. Twenty-two weeks into the pregnancy she developed severe abdominal pains, which resulted in their son being born early. After giving birth, our grandson lived approximately eight hours. (Please excuse my flowing of tears right now) This was one the toughest ordeals I have ever been through in my life, not to mention having to perform the home going ceremony. I barely made it through that short time span.
I am telling you this because I am sure that most of you have lost a loved one and know what I am feeling at this very moment. I will never get over the heartache that is felt when I think of Colin. We are blessed to have another grandson that is almost 4 years old and he brings peace , joy and comfort to my heart each and every day.
I went to the cemetery last week and the thought crossed my mind as to why more of us do not visit our deceased loved ones on a regular basis. I know we have good intentions and I know there is nothing we can do for them, but if I were lying there it would be nice to know that someone stopped by to visit every now and then. Sure I know that the individual we loved and communicated with is not really in the grave, but what remains of their physical bodies are still there. I don't want to get morbid, but I just think we need to show more concern and respect by making more frequent visit to their grave sites.
Am I the only one that feels this way? It could be that I am just having a very sad moment and it will pass, but I don't think so! I would love to hear about your experiences and how you feel about this topic. I have even thought about having a "Visit the Cemetery" day. We have boss's day and secretary's day don't we? Why not a day set aside to visit our loved ones that are no longer with us? This would at least give us the opportunity to visit once a year.
I will looked forward to any and all responses to this post and I will respond back as well. Have a blessed day and remember to show your love and concerned for those that are still with you. You never know when they will be called home!
Missing my little buddy!
Eddie
Missing my little buddy!
Eddie
